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What should I do about college classes?

Question by lorraineeee: What should I do about college classes?
I’ll be starting college in the fall as a freshman. I’m not sure if I’m ready though. My whole life people have put me down, called me a nobody and have said that I won’t make it through life. I’m attending community college, which to me isn’t a big deal, but to my family it is. Both my older siblings attended good universities and were positive on what they were going to study. Being the youngest in the family I feel that no one really expects much from me. Everytime I get asked “what are you studying in college” my reply is always “I don’t know”. For some reason my heart is telling me to take a few drama classes, even though I was never part of a drama club/class in middle school or h.s. Ever since I was little I had the earge to just try out for plays or just put on a show for my family. But with parents like mine they would’ve found it silly. This may sound weird but I’ve been getting random signs about acting and that I should just try it out, no matter what anyone says. I’m just not sure, so it would be nice hearing some of people’s thoughts and opinions.

thanks.

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Answer by kirstenallise
freek what ppl say. i thought the same thing so i didnt start till like the winter quarter. then when i got in and got settled it was pure fun.

you wont ever know til you try,. Dont be scared of anything. everyone has to do it once. If not you will be a hobo.

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Losing grip on what reality really is and fearing the possible “oo yeah, we all did that”.?

Question by Jason: Losing grip on what reality really is and fearing the possible “oo yeah, we all did that”.?
Not going to include any of the .com’s but you can figure out the sites.
I ran into this site called daredorm. Realized there are others like it, collegerules, mygf and so many others.

I am in the same age group as the people in these videos. 22 year old male. I am in college and led a fairly dull one. Never joined a frat and didn’t go to many parties.

I now have this pervasive belief that all these guys in fraternities and are out partying are having 2-3 girls pleasure them.

Scenarios pop into my head constantly. I even had a dream. Not only in the dream was A girl I met when I started college and had a major attraction for was with my brother, she and her friend were pleasuring him (nothing graphic, just the belief) for no reason but “meh we were drunk”.

It’s not even the physical act that enters my mind, it’s this thought that all the guys around me… all my peers are being pleasured by 2-3 women and these women are doing it “because we were drunk” or “meh it was fun”.

I am viscerally fearful that I will one day be told, “oo yeah, we all did that, you went to college, you didn’t?”.

I have low self esteem and am shy. This is not just a “now that I am in college” belief, but I had these thoughts that guys were having meaningless threesomes with hot girls in highschool. I see a psychologist weekly and know I have negative thought patterns, but this one is resulting in a noticeable visceral response. Every time I see a guy on campus, scenarios pop into my head with groups of random hot girls pleasuring the guy with no restraint.

This is not my typical low self esteem or jealousy, this is a pervasive fear that one day, somebody will tell me “oo yeah everybody did that” and I will end up shut down thinking “god damn the world passed me by, I seriously missed out”.

Like I said, ive had negative thought patterns all my life. I have been working on treating them with strong evaluations. Proving to myself something is or isn’t. I can’t do that with this, as everything I see, points to the nauseating idea that every guy but me is enjoying this, my little brother is being pleasured by not only a girl I have had a crush on, but also 1 – 2 of her hot friends. Not only that, but my brother goes to a college 7 hours away, yet the idea that what if I find out one day, “oo yeah I ran into her at a bar, she and her friend took me into the bathroom, it was fun, everybody was doing it”. It’s physically debilitating and I am completely lost on what to do.

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Answer by Mike
I’m sorry, but I could only read half of your question. Trust me–there might be a FEW out there that’s happened to, but SURELY not the majority.

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Q&A: college “friends” questions? (please help)?

Question by runwithme.: college “friends” questions? (please help)?
Sorry this is long, but if you could help me I’d really really appreciate it.

There’s three people I know in college
who seem to like messing with my head.
In first semester I was friends with them, but after multiple rude acts from them and after feeling as if I were just being used, I stopped associating with them.

Now that second semester came along, two of them are in my class, and the other one I see a lot in the halls.
My college doesn’t have many people, and so I didn’t want to form any bad relationships here, but it happened and now I’m unsure of how to deal with it.

It really bothers me because they will act nice to my face, but it’s quite obvious that they viciously talk behind my back. Actually, they’ll have no problem talking about me even when I’m in the same room in a loud voice. They speak a different language, but they’ll throw my name in their a couple of times and the tone in their voice is definitely one of hatred.
I don’t really care if they say negative things about me since it’s just their opinions, but what I don’t like is how they will go on to act nice to my face as if they think I’m stupid enough to fall for that act again, and as if they can use me again.

I only talk to them when they talk to me, and I will try to be polite,
but it’s really really bothering me how they do this, when all I want to do is work hard in school, reach my goal, be able to give back to my parents, and have a nice environment where I can work together with other students.

And I even have proof that they are doing this, and that it isn’t just in my head because one of the person even said: “You know, our race (the three of these people I’m talking about is all not American, and is of a certain race) is good at psychologically manipulating people.”

What the f.

I should also mention that I don’t have many friends in school because I am kind of quiet…
although I don’t mind working alone,
but this whole thing is hindering me from being who I want to be because it’s making me feel negative all the time-which affects my relations with other people.

I need help.
Any wise advice would be appreciated,
and I do choose best answers.
Thanks in advance.

I’m sorry that this is such an immature problem,
but if you could help me deal with it maturely I would be very thankful.

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Answer by puccapucca<3
As a college student, just focus on your studies. It’s not high school anymore, and you’ll risk nothing by not associating with them. Keep doing what you’re doing, there are nasty people out there and you know it. If they do anything physical, report it. They are not kids. If it is psychological, you have the power of defending yourself- don’t pay attention to them. They are not yours to worry about.

Good luck.

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How do I tell a guy I dont want to continue being with him when he goes back to college?

Question by : How do I tell a guy I dont want to continue being with him when he goes back to college?
He and I started talking about a month ago, and we talk every day pretty much. We have hung out and cuddled and kissed but we aren’t anything official, and I want it to stay that way. He is three years older than me and when I go back to high school in the fall he’ll be going back to college. I really don’t think its a good idea for us to get serious, and I don’t want it to continue when he goes back to college because I want him to enjoy the whole college experience without all the added drama (he had a terrible first year), and I want to enjoy my junior year without having to worry about a boyfriend. I have told him this already (before we ever hung out) but he just keeps saying “well what if I don’t want to talk to any other girls in college?” and “Lets wait until the end of the summer and see if you feel the same way”…I know I will and I don’t want him to get the wrong idea. How should I address this with him again without making him feel bad or making him feel insulted? because I really do like him I just want to be free throughout high school…working hard in school is stressful enough without the added drama of a long distance relationship

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Answer by The unvarnished Truth
Be tactful but direct. He might get hurt, but he’ll get over it and it’ll be better for both of you in the long haul.

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